main reason of conflict in family ?????
AS WE ALL KNOW THAT WE ARE BEST CREATURE OF THIS PLANET BECAUSE WE ARE HUMAN BEING AND WE LIVE IN A FAMILY AND there IS A FAMILY there MUST BE SOME CONFLICT IN FAMILY WHATEVER IS THE REASON BEHIND IT BUT WE ALL FACE THIS PROBLEM IN OUR FAMILY ISN'T IS.
Here I will discuss its reason and also provide its perfect solution, if you want to overcome this type of problem or want to short out this problem you must read this information
The reason behind it is we all just see one snap of happiness but we can't get happiness, in reality, isn't it? we get too much grief but in hope of happiness we all just bear all problems isn't it.
Try to understand that the next day we will get happiness this thought is the main folly of mind or our misconception that the next day we will get happiness. Remember one important thing that is if you want to be happy then don't search for it
for any other one your happiness is just inside you and only you can unfold it for yourself. never ever has this happened in history which says that someone becomes happy by some other one never forever.
But in search of happiness someone other people must be filled with sorrow. It is the reality of happiness. But our hope for happiness is still alive and look forward to the future that we can get happiness in the future this is the reality of our thinking process.
we can't be denied it. How long this process of being happy the next day or someone makes us happy will alive in our mind and heart whatever would be in our life we will say that he is responsible for this.
for this, we are unable to create a perfect relationship with our inner mind which can and only that can give us real happiness in our lives. The greatest folly of humanity is always we see toward others in happy, or in sorrow, we just look forward to others, isn't it.
In our relation whatever we have created in our life always say another one is responsible for whatever goes on in our life.
we create a curtain fro ever everyone and start projection according to our thinking process and after sometime later we just see a projector of life.
but we forget about projection, think about a cinema hall we never see backward the place where from a film is projecting we just see on the curtain isn't it.
Remember when we watch a movie in a cinema curtain became important, projector became minor hardly anybody sees on the projector.
and we think curtain is real, like this in our life whenever any second person involved in our life we say that he is responsible for this or that happiness or sorrow in our life.
we don't care about our inner sense which always says about truth but we just refuse them and concentrate on the people who are with us at that time and we forget that something is happening inside us which they are feeling in their eyes in their body and also by their behavior
Remember all relationships are a prospector and our mind is a curtain if you want to change anything on this curtain that is impossible.
still, you want to make any change you must change from the projector the main source of information Search of rightness is start from where when we start to see the projector.
we realize that all the problems whatever is going on with me I am responsible for this all the happiness or sorrow are just my creation no other one is responsible for this.
my all relations are come out from me another one (second person) is just misjudge of mind. A human being starts to upgrade himself in reality.
but the philosophy of life is very different we can't control it easily. when we love a woman and gets grief from her side. Humans a different types of vertebrate beings who can't live alone and also can't be happy with someone both conditions are just created by humans and both are painful to them.
Because we lose our self-respect with someone because all relation just binds our soul, whenever we involve in relation we just started to lose our myself felling of myself because there is the second one in involving in us and we all think about other and like to suggest to them that you should be like this or that and this would be the main reason for conflict between them.
if male and female both overcome the thought of wanting to other then it can be solved.
so if really you want to be happy then don't ask or look forward to other just releases it from your inner heart because only you can release your happiness neither one can help you.
for any other one your happiness is just inside you and only you can unfold it for yourself. never ever has this happened in history which says that someone becomes happy by some other one never forever.
But in search of happiness someone other people must be filled with sorrow. It is the reality of happiness. But our hope for happiness is still alive and look forward to the future that we can get happiness in the future this is the reality of our thinking process.
we can't be denied it. How long this process of being happy the next day or someone makes us happy will alive in our mind and heart whatever would be in our life we will say that he is responsible for this.
for this, we are unable to create a perfect relationship with our inner mind which can and only that can give us real happiness in our lives. The greatest folly of humanity is always we see toward others in happy, or in sorrow, we just look forward to others, isn't it.
In our relation whatever we have created in our life always say another one is responsible for whatever goes on in our life.we create a curtain fro ever everyone and start projection according to our thinking process and after sometime later we just see a projector of life.
but we forget about projection, think about a cinema hall we never see backward the place where from a film is projecting we just see on the curtain isn't it.
Remember when we watch a movie in a cinema curtain became important, projector became minor hardly anybody sees on the projector.
and we think curtain is real, like this in our life whenever any second person involved in our life we say that he is responsible for this or that happiness or sorrow in our life.
we don't care about our inner sense which always says about truth but we just refuse them and concentrate on the people who are with us at that time and we forget that something is happening inside us which they are feeling in their eyes in their body and also by their behavior
Remember all relationships are a prospector and our mind is a curtain if you want to change anything on this curtain that is impossible.
still, you want to make any change you must change from the projector the main source of information Search of rightness is start from where when we start to see the projector.
we realize that all the problems whatever is going on with me I am responsible for this all the happiness or sorrow are just my creation no other one is responsible for this.
my all relations are come out from me another one (second person) is just misjudge of mind. A human being starts to upgrade himself in reality.
but the philosophy of life is very different we can't control it easily. when we love a woman and gets grief from her side. Humans a different types of vertebrate beings who can't live alone and also can't be happy with someone both conditions are just created by humans and both are painful to them.
Because we lose our self-respect with someone because all relation just binds our soul, whenever we involve in relation we just started to lose our myself felling of myself because there is the second one in involving in us and we all think about other and like to suggest to them that you should be like this or that and this would be the main reason for conflict between them.
Solution for all conflict which we face every day in our life.
Lord Mahavira said sorrow does not come from others but it occurs because of our self-creation.if male and female both overcome the thought of wanting to other then it can be solved.
so if really you want to be happy then don't ask or look forward to other just releases it from your inner heart because only you can release your happiness neither one can help you.
